Strap-on mega post

If you know me at all, either in real life or on the internet, you probably know I’m a strap-on enthusiast. Not only is strap-on play a favorite in my personal repertoire, but it’s something I teach a variety of classes on (more on that below.) So it wasn’t a surprise when I got a Facebook message from a friend asking me for pegging advice. It got me thinking about my first adventure with anal…

Social Media 101 for freelancers (from writers to sex workers)

I wrote this in response to two professional Dominatrixes who asked me about using Twitter to promote their business, but as I was writing I realized it was relevant to most freelance work. In a former life I was a professional fundraiser in the non-profit sector. One of my specialties was social media and peer-to-peer fundraising. While I rarely do that kind of work these days, I’ve found the skills I have translate amazingly well…