If you’d like to add a few tricks to your sexual repertoire or expand your kinky horizons, consider private instruction. With a one-on-one session you can learn at your own pace in a supportive environment. Instruction is available in your space or mine. The session itself is a lot of fun and can be a great experience and you’ll leave with skills to try out right away.

For example, in less than two hours you can learn the basics of rope bondage and leave ready to incorporate restraint in the bedroom. Or maybe you’ve always been interested in spanking – learn how to do it right.

It’s not just the skills you’ll learn, but how to build a scene or incorporate kink elements into your sex life. With a private session it’s all about you. We’ll talk about your interests and build instruction around your experience level.

A wide variety of topics can be covered or combined and may be simply talk and discussion or include hands-on instruction. Here are a few examples:

  • Introducing ethical non-monogamy (polyamory, etc.) into your relationship
  • Rope bondage
  • Impact play (spanking, flogging, caning, etc.)
  • Dirty talk and talking about your fantasies
  • Power exchange and Dominance and submission

So, what does a private session look like? Here’s an excerpt from a testimonial from a private instruction student:

“We set up a private rope bondage lesson with Stella and it was exactly what we were looking for. She was so non-judgmental and facilitative with all my questions before, during, and after our lesson. The lesson itself was relaxed and comfortable, and covered all the basics that we needed without bombarding us with too much to absorb at once. She covered all the safety information first, and then taught us enough basic ties to really give us something to work and play with on our own. Her technique of showing us on herself, and teaching us how to tie on each other or ourselves while talking us through the steps and weaving in little tips and pointers was fantastic. She was really patient with us when we had those ‘how did you just do that?’ moments. There were a few times when it was helpful to have her demo a technique on me so my partner could learn by watching, and she asked for my consent every time she needed to touch me to do so…. how wonderful!”

Rope demonstration.
A gentle rope demonstration.

When you decide to do a private instruction session I’ll have you answer a few questions in advance to help me plan a session just for you. When we meet for the first time we’ll also talk about your needs and interests in person before we start.

The sessions are fairly casual. We maintain an open dialogue and you can ask questions at any time. If we’re doing something hands-on it’s best if you wear clothes you can move in, like yoga clothes. Depending on the type of session, and especially if you’re at a session with your partner, you may choose to remove some clothes (to be caned or spanked by your partner in only your underwear, for example) but my clothes will always stay on. Although these sessions can be a lot of fun there is no sexual contact between myself and students.

Rope demonstration
Rope demonstration

Rates. My rate for private instruction is $100 an hour. Multi-session packages are also available. When you get in touch we can work out the session or package of sessions that’s right for you.

Payment is expected at the conclusion of each session by cash, check, or credit card. For phone or skype sessions, payment is required in advance.

Interested? Contact me and we can get started planning a session just for you.

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