Hereās the thing. I know itās scary to talk to someone about sex, sexuality, and relationships. Our culture doesnāt make space for that kind of vulnerability. And on the rare occasions sex talk is allowed (locker rooms, over drinks) it isnāt with a professional that can answer your questions – itās with friends who might have the same misconceptions as you.
I hear again and again that people donāt talk to their doctors or therapists about sex. And thatās doubly true when it involves anything considered outside the norm, like kink or open relationships.
And thatās why I do what I do. I create a safe and comfortable space where you can talk – maybe for the first time – about your desires, your sexuality, your wants, and your needs.
So many people havenāt talked about this before – maybe even havenāt thought about it before – that folks often donāt know what they need or want. I can help you figure that out too.
All you need to know is that you want more – that you want something to change – and I can help you.
If youāre local*, weāll meet in my cozy office in NE Portland, maybe share a cup of tea, and youāll tell me whatās on your mind, and what areaās of your life youād like to find change or growth. And weāll go from there. Iāll help you set goals, and create an action plan to meet those goals.
And Iāll support you every step of the way. I may assign āhomeworkā in the form of things to read, or worksheets to fill out. I often suggest journaling so you can dig deep into your feelings and thoughts.
The details of what weāll do can vary widely, because every coaching session is tailor designed to your needs, and your working style.
Perhaps most importantly, Iāve experienced many of the struggles and concerns that I help my clients with, and I know what it feels like to be shy or to lack confidence.
A few highlights of what otherās have said: āYou’re cute, clever and charming, but most importantly you come across as being not only knowledgeable but also understanding and patient, which put us both at ease.ā -JMT
āI can’t recommend Stellaās classes enough. She is very knowledgeable and, more importantly, continuously furthering her own education. Her informal presentation style feels more like a personal chat with with a pervy pal than a rigidly structured class.ā – Infamous Coatcheck Girl
Ready to get started? Get in touch today.
*Coaching is also offered by phone or skype, no matter where in the world you might be. In person coaching is also available when Iām traveling to teach.