Stella Harris believes communication is key to satisfaction in relationships. 

Professionally trained and certified as an intimacy educator, coach, and mediator, Stella brings empathy, expertise, and a fresh perspective to help clients find their sticking points and break through the roadblocks to their goals. 

Stella’s career is never dull; highlights include being sent to a strip club with a press pass to report on Stormy Daniels, appearing on the evening news to discuss the importance of sex education in schools, and speaking as an authority on banana slug mating habits. 

Stella’s writing appears widely, including a sex advice column in the Willamette Week newspaper, and she’s frequently quoted in the media including Teen Vogue, Cosmopolitan, and Health Line.

Thanks to her sense of humor and ability to make difficult conversations approachable, Stella is a frequent guest on podcasts and she’s also a regular performer at live storytelling shows including Mystery Box Show and Risk!

Stella is the author of two books, Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships, and The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes.