What is a munch?
I talk to a lot of people who are either new to the kink scene or are curious but not yet involved. The common advice given to newcomers is that …
The Heart of Kink: Vulnerability
I’ve interviewed countless people for my classes and articles, and whenever I talk to people into kink, BDSM, or fetish play, there’s a common thread. When I ask people why …
Chicks can do that?
As I was giving rope tastings at a recent event a woman said to me, “I didn’t know chicks could do that.” I was so floored, so confused, that …