This Masturbation May, Build Yourself a Pleasure Ritual
This ‘Masturbation May’ take a pledge to learn more about your body and how you like to be touched, and create a way to make that exploration special. We can …
When social distancing means close quarters
All we’re seeing in the news and in our social media feeds is telling us to keep our distance from other people — but how does that work when you …
A pegging story for Anal August
Pegging is one of my favorite topics (although I have a lot of favorites 😉 ) It’s something I write about, teach about, and love in my personal life, too. …
The Heart of Kink: Vulnerability
I’ve interviewed countless people for my classes and articles, and whenever I talk to people into kink, BDSM, or fetish play, there’s a common thread. When I ask people why …
Masturbation as self love and ritual
I’m not a Wiccan, but the line from the charge of the goddess, “All acts of love and pleasure are my rituals,” has always resonated with me. I was reminded of …
Create the orgy you want to see in the world.
Although I never intended to specialize in sex parties, it seems to have happened. It’s simply a kind of play I enjoy in my personal life, which dovetails nicely with …
Getting wet with Liberator products
I knew I wanted to talk about some of my favorite companies or products for a Valentine’s Day post… the question was, which ones? Well, then I had an experience …
Adventures in Vulva Cloning
The “pussy cloning” party I recently hosted was not something I’d ever expected to do – but I’m so glad I did. It all started, like many things, with a …
Shame-Free Masturbation May
It’s Masturbation May and masturbation advice and musings are all over my social media feed. It’s making me recall, with fondness, the time I masturbated to orgasm in front of …
Adding novelty keeps relationships hot and happy – it’s science!
Therapists, coaches, and books that focus on relationships have long said that adding novelty is one of the key ways to keep a relationship hot and happy. Now there’s even …