Show Yourself To Me
One of the most popular topics I work on in classes and with private clients is communication skills. And a common question I’m asked by students and clients is how …
Celebrating Bisexuality Day
Today is Celebrate Bisexuality Day. As as I considered itās approach, and watched Bisexual Awareness Week articles pass through my social media feeds, I realized I hadnāt told my whole …
I’m Speaking at Catalyst Con West!
Two years ago I attended my first Catalyst Con and it was an amazing experience. I met wonderful people like Tristan Taormino, Cunning Minx, Kate McCombs, JoEllen Notte, Epiphora, and …
New Year, New Classes
2014 was an amazing year, but rather than recap I’m eager to move forward and 2015 is already shaping up to be an incredible year full of classes and events. …
How I became a Sex Educator
I became a sex educator out of necessity. At the age of 13 I had to teach my grandmother about anatomy – specifically the hymen. I guess I should back …
Lady Cave Spelunking; Or, The Search for the G-Spot Rages On
Yet another study has been released telling women how they can, and should, find orgasms and sexual pleasure. And as usual the online commentary is immediate. The way science tells …
What is a munch?
I talk to a lot of people who are either new to the kink scene or are curious but not yet involved. The general wisdom, and common advice, given to …
Showing my work.
I did a couple of photoshoots nearly two weeks ago and I’ve been waiting for the results not too patiently ever since. I’m not the one who needs to do …
Let’s talk about fisting
Well, the Mystery Box Show performance has come and gone, and it was an amazing experience. I can’t remember the last time I was so nervous but once I stepped …
Chicks can do that?
As I was giving rope tastings at a recent event a woman said to me, āI didnāt know chicks could do that.ā I was so floored, so confused, that I …