Hi! I’m Stella Harris,

a certified Intimacy Educator & Professional Coach. I can help you develop the skills, knowledge, and confidence to make your fantasies a reality.


First and foremost I create a space where you can feel comfortable and be yourself. Then I develop individualized coaching sessions to meet your needs around relationships, sex, intimacy, kink, & more.


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“Thank you so much for your instruction and coaching in both caning and rope bondage! As I suspected, there was so much more to caning than simply a good, sound beating! It was reassuring to have such a confident, experienced and gracious instructor to help me build my confidence and develop my skill. On top of that, I immensely enjoyed the rope classes I have taken with you; not only have I learned the basic, technical aspects of safe, sexy rope tying, but found reinforcement for the consent an…

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